How open are you to try something "New"?

I had a Pure Romance Party last Friday Night!  For those of you that do not know what Pure Romance is, it is a home based party that specializes in enriching relationships and the ability to explore all avenues in the bedroom.  They have lotions, C-rings, Lubricants, Vibrators etc...A wide variety of products!  I jumped at the chance to host one of these parties, because I already own a good many of these products, but I am always open to trying something new.  That comment right there, is key! "Trying Something New"! http://pureromance.com/shop-online/
  I sit all day doing nails and then listen to my friends speak of their relationships and I speak of mine, quite honestly, I think I tell all of the stories...But my point is> I hear how happy or miserable everyone is with their sex life. More often, they are NOT content!  Friends have said, "You love sex more than anyone I know".  I do not believe this to be true! I have friends that are very open minded sexually but they do not discuss it nor are they willing to attend parties such as these.  I find that to be quite amusing.  Could it be that some of us are ashamed of how we interact in the bedroom?  Granted, some things are meant to be kept between you and your partner and/or partners...But as women, if we do not share our experiences and open up about sex than how can we ever make room for improvement.  Believe me, there is ALWAYS room for improvement. Do you not ever think that if you turn your nose up about pleasuring your man orally, with a comment like, "That's disgusting"...How do you think that makes him feel?  How would you feel if you were told you were disgusting?  I am telling you ladies, if these are wants and desires that your partner has then I think you should be willing to explore every avenue with him/her to keep things exciting and new and reassure that person that you still desire them. Granted, discuss all of these things prior to marriage, you need to know what each other expects so they do not look for it elsewhere. Again, My opinion!
 Sex can become dull and almost monotonous when you are with one person on a day to day basis.  I think it is a shame when we become so comfortable with one another that we lose sight of what attracted us to one another to begin with.  Men have VERY vivid and explicit imaginations and think about sex more often than women do.  For Example, Ohio State University conducted a study that revealed the following:

[COLUMBUS, Ohio – Men may think about sex more often than women do, but a new study suggests that men also think about other biological needs, such as eating and sleep, more frequently than women do, as well. And the research discredits the persistent stereotype that men think about sex every seven seconds, which would amount to more than 8,000 thoughts about sex in 16 waking hours. In the study, the median number of young men’s thought about sex stood at almost 19 times per day. Young women in the study reported a median of nearly 10 thoughts about sex per day.
As a group, the men also thought about food almost 18 times per day and sleep almost 11 times per day, compared to women’s median number of thoughts about eating and sleep, at nearly 15 times and about 8 1/2 times, respectively.] You may read more about this on their web page/link>
 http://researchnews.osu.edu/archive/sexthoughts.htm

Now we realize why, men want to eat, fuck and then go to sleep!  There ya have it ladies! Ohio State says so!
So studies do reveal that sex in fact enters a mans mind far more often than a woman's.  I say most women, I cannot be included in that...:D  I think I land in the same numbers as men do!  That goes for sex and eating with me!  I think about them both equally throughout the day, often at the same moment... LOL!  They have always said, Fastest way to a mans heart is through his stomach!  Nothing like the thought of a homemade lasagna or a big fat steak to lure your man home, only to top it off with a blow job for dessert!  Tell me, that wouldn't be a recipe for a happy man?  :D 
I am getting off track a bit, but where I was heading with this topic is the fact that we get to comfortable and sex eventually becomes boring.  I think in all lasting relationships you need to be inventing new things all of the time.  If you both are on the same page at all times, then it makes everyone happy.  If you both are content with being comfortable and not having sex often, then that is what works for you both. But if one persons appetite is far greater than the other than its up to you to keep them happy.  This is my opinion, mind you!  None of my failed relationships were due to lack of sex, I assure you...:)  This is why they ALL try to come back eventually...But why go backwards when there are so many other roads I can travel...;)  Be inventive, be open to new things and talk about your desires with your partner.  If you think you will be shunned or made to feel filthy because of your desires, then you are with the wrong person is all I have to tell you.  Life is far too short, to hide behind your true self and not be able to express yourself to your mate.