How liberated are we really?

Seriously!! How liberated are we when it comes to talking about sex? Define Liberated: freed from or opposed to traditional social and sexual attitudes or roles <a liberated woman> <a liberated marriage.

I think back to when I was a child and wonder when did I become so consumed with thoughts of sex.  It could have been the playboy magazines I found under my Dads bed, or things that I witnessed and somehow suppressed.  Who knows!  I remember being attracted to men at a very early age, my crushes were recognized early.  I loved men, boys!  Still do, maybe I am reliving my childhood. :)  I sure hope so, because I feel like a kid in a candy store...But I gotta tell ya, the tootsie roll ain't gonna cut it!  I want the "three musketeers" maybe at the same time! ;)  Anyway, I am losing my train of thought, I suddenly have a sweet tooth!
When I was a girl, My mother was always saying, I was boy crazy.  When I spoke foul mouthed or about sex, she said, "You never know who hears you and how they judge you!" Being the type of kid that really didn't give a shit what people thought of me, I spoke of sex anyway.  I found the boys loved it, the girls giggled etc!  But, and this is a big But!!  Speaking of butts, have you seen my ass lately?  Now, that's a big Butt!!  Anyway, moving on...I was taught that Ladies didn't speak that way, it took me years to figure out how to be a lady in public and still be a whore in the bedroom!  Who am I kidding, I still struggle with being a lady in public, but when I see something I like and want to talk shit to him, there isn't too much anyone can say to me to prevent it.  Its the bull in me!  A mans smile and personality is the red cape, taunting me, and if he had washboard abs and a few tattoos and a tan...I was all over it!  But he had to make me laugh and have an outgoing personality or my libido would crash and burn! Hell, those of you that know me well, know a convict turns me on...so I have never been very picky! :D  I love men in general! I don't judge people on their past mistakes, I judge them from the moment I meet them on..
I lost my virginity at the age of 14, on the long stretch of 7 mile beach in the Grand Cayman Islands!  Hey, who could ask for anything better or more romantic than that?  Yeah well, romance was not an issue at that time and I had no clue what I was doing and it hurt like hell,  but it started something that I grew to enjoy!  :)
In high school, boys didn't know how to handle me, they still don't to be honest!  I talked so much shit, they would turn red!  But I ate that shit up! Don't ever let me see your embarrassment or I will stalk you just to make you blush again.  :) I am not sure how guys viewed me in High School, whether I had a reputation or not.  I do not recall hearing anything hurtful about myself, but who knows?  My point about all of this is, the fact that I felt "liberated" at an early age and I felt a need to express my view points about sex to people and make them lighten up about it.  Its a naural thing, we all do it, we all think about it and it can be fabulous.  If everyone shared my viewpoint, then some women and men would not look at sex as something icky or a chore to perform. It's an exploration into the unknown of not only making yourself feel better but someone else and that alone has been the most rewarding part of it all.  I love doing things for other people, literally! :)  I may take it to the extreme at times, but it is what it is, and I am not ashamed to admit that I have been set free from any opposition towards sex and any negative attitude society has placed on it.  I love it and do not care who knows it!  PS: I love it, but not just with anyone, gotta have the chemistry people, it's all about the connection, the attraction>THE CHEMISTRY!  BECOME LIBERATED, SET YOUR SELF FREE AND ENJOY IT! If your partner doesn't enjoy it then tune back in and I just may help with ideas on how to get them interested.  :)